Something Delicious

Something to note about me is that I love breakfast. When thinking about something delicious, my thoughts scatter to all the times i’ve been able to share a meal with someone. In college, I started a breakfast club with a handful of people over the years. We’d meet at the cafeteria and chat over a hearty morning meal. In Chicago, my roommates and I had our go-to breakfast spot called Nookies. In Nashville, for years i’d meet my good friend Britney at a coffee shop, called Fido, every Friday morning at 7a. And later, I relocated to a different coffee shop called Bongo Java to spend time with another dear friend, Wendy, for morning catch up sessions. And don’t even get me started on all the memories I have at an off-the-beaten path spot called Le Peep where I could just build a home in all the things discussed with my pals.

New York and Brooklyn were a little trickier since the city itself is so pricey. However, there was a Mexican Bakery in South Park Slope where I would treat myself to a chorizo and egg omelette every so often - often enough for them to remember my order. Similarly with the burger spot on the corner of my street. The cook saw me coming and would give me a handful of fries while I waited, not to mention, he’d add bacon on my burger for no extra charge. There were a handful of Israeli spots I really loved too. Breakfasts in NYC were the time I’d gather my thoughts and refill my tank after the never-stopping grind of the city. Those were just as impactful though. I remember when a particular coffee cart worker remembered my coffee order and I felt like i’d made it. I did have friends who would wake up early and meet me at the local diner or requested breakfast spot. And to those people, it still means a lot because everything in NYC takes a good bit of energy.

Here in Atlanta, I’ve taken myself to a few places and written out my emotions out onto the pages the journal. My roommate and I have frequented the local Waffle House together, always an adventure, and my new friend Vicky is always up for breakfast’ing together around town. Plus, this past week, two girls I work with (Mary & Kaitlyn) who are in their twenties and so caring, took me to breakfast! We met, ate, and had a really great day. I say all this because the something delicious isn’t ever gonna be one meal. I’m not a fancy food person or a “I must go to this place” type of girl. I like food because of the DELICIOUS company. I said it. Yikes. Judge away, I deserve it! I also know there are a couple of cannibal movies out right now, so it’s probably not the right time to say that culturally either, ugh. But I do adore breakfast - because the city is still quiet and it’s time spent with someone before the day has affected them. Even when it’s just me, the stillness helps me find clarity in my thoughts. So that’s my delicious something - the morning, the breakfasts, the people. A lot of wonderful somethings.

Something Small

Small things usually have big impressions, to me at least. On my instagram, ssvirginia, I have an entire highlight (pinned on profile) based upon small things that brought something to mind and then I added music. It’s called Music & Magic if you ever need an escape.

I began working on it during the pandemic and have been adding to it ever since. It helps me remember to really look at things and imagine what the moment before or after could’ve been. I love it and will look at often, remembering that silliness and whimsy is possible if we take time to make it so. I’ll keep this post small to go along with the theme. Thank you for continuing to read these - writing blesses me a lot and you all affect me thrice as much!

A Leap (or a tiny step) of Faith

Learning how to trust God is difficult. I’m still learning and often wonder what amount of trust in God’s plan is possible. I feel like I’m constantly attempting to walk on a tight rope and I just keep falling off. Luckily, it’s not high off the ground…what are those called? Oh slacklines, right? Did anyone else have a crush on someone who owned one of those? I won’t go down that road. But with all that said, I definitely feel like a beginner when it comes to trust. With all the places I’ve lived and different jobs I’ve held, there’ve been quite a few steps of faith taken - barreled through is probably more accurate. One leap of faith was volunteering in youth ministry. Youth Ministry has been very significant in my life. Growing up with divorced parents, my mom went to one church and my dad went to another. Because my siblings and I did the every other weekend thing, we sort of got to choose which youth group we wanted to do on Wednesday nights. I chose the church my dad attended on Sundays. That church youth group was formative and I still keep in contact with a number of families (including the former youth pastor)! It was the reason I wanted to volunteer as a youth leader.

I moved to Nashville in my mid-twenties and found a church I loved. Eventually, I began helping out with the youth group. Those kids were incredibly kind and loving. I chaperoned a handful of weekend trips and felt my heart expand when I was with them. I ended up leaving for reasons I won’t get into but landed at another church in Brentwood, TN. I waited a bit to decide about serving as a youth leader. But, one day a friend on staff (who I later moved to NYC with) asked me to coffee. We chatted for a bit before she brought up the youth group needing leaders. It was with a group of 8th grade girls and their leader had recently left. Even though I’d been helping out with teenagers for years prior, my nerves crept up. It was a huge commitment because you stayed with the same group as they moved up grades. When my first Wednesday came, I was so nervous they wouldn’t like me. But fortunately, it was all in my head.

Those girls ended up changing my life. I gained confidence in myself and fell in love with them and their families. We went to camps together and I even chaperoned a high school trip to Peru. It was a leap of faith to trust that group of girls. They were there for me for years and still are. A couple of them visited me in New York. And i’ve since been to one wedding, with another one on the books for next year. Having teenagers (and parents) trust me still means a lot. The other adults who were leaders were also very encouraging to me during that time. I am convinced that somewhere in my body is a container which holds all the love I’ve received from people in my life. And all I have to do is open it whenever I need it.

Until Tomorrow ⛅︎,

Sarah